Life

Her life was quiet and peaceful before you came to
her
You appeared like an angel and proved to her you
are the man of her dream
She considered your story and fell for you
You proposed to her and got her married to you But after the wedding U change your ways
An old angel becomes a new beast
You changed from a caring husband to a careless
man
You make her life miserable in the name of love
You treat her like trash like shes not worth a thing If she complain about anything
You say she nags a lot
When she's fed up and react angrily you give her a
slap
U replace her confidence and self esteem with fear
You become insecure because she makes more money than you
Instead of being there for her you turned against her
After giving you many kids
You said she is ugly and fat
You said why cant her tummy be flat like it used to
be You cheated on her many times and still demand
apology from her
Because she is a home builder she did
Everything you are doing to her is the opposite of
the promises you made to her
You promised to love and cherish her till the end of time
Its not yet end time and your love is gone
She goes to bed sadly every night because this is
not what she want
This is not the type of marriage she dreamt about
when saying I DO She has tried everything nothing seems to work
You told her she can never find any man because
she already has a lot of kids
You told her to it's easier for a man to re marry after
breaking up with many women
But very hard for a woman especially with kids SHE refused to tell anybody just to save her home
She goes through a lot of pains that she can't
explain
But because sadness can't be hidden for long
People begin to know
You turned her to a laughing stuff amidst family and friends
Those who dont know what you've made her been
through were condemning and blaming her why she
failed
She was ready to make it work regardless of
anything But you think shes desperate and weak
Her soul is out of the marriage only her body is
there
She has been drained emotionally because you have
pushed her beyond the wall
If she is quiet doesn't mean she is a fool She is quiet because her love for you is still the
same
She wants you to know she is still your wife
She is your lovely partner and not a slave
She is not just a decoration or one those things you
purchased with cash She wants you to a a responsible and loving
husband to her and the kids
She wants you to spend more time with her and the
kids
She wants you to listen whenever she want to talk
She want you to be sensitive to what makes her happy and sad
She wants you to know that its not only money or
material things that give her happiness and joy
She hates to beg and fight for your attention
Sometimes she wants to be spoiled and be treated
like a queen Sometimes she wants her breakfast while she is
still in bed
She want you to take a walk with her on the beach
holding her hands
She wants you to show her off to your family and
friends and say meet my beautiful wife Sometimes she create drama just to be sure
Your love and understanding is still the same
She cries sometimes not because she is sad
But because she wants to know that with you shes
never alone..
She want you to be there for her and be there with her.....
She want you to become who you used to be.....
A loving husband and a responsible father of her kid
This is all she ask for in 2014........ By Emmanuel UbuOr