only the very best is good enough for you

You Deserve Better.....Yes
You!.....Please Read This.
Hi you,
Yes you, not her, no not him…You! Do you know
you deserve the best? do you know he or she is
not right for you? if he abuses you, insults you,
calls you names and make you feel less, you
should not be with him…If she compares you to
your friends/other guys, tells you, you cannot
afford her, shares you with another guy and think
you cannot do anything important with your life…
You deserve better!
How long do you want to stay to patch things up?
How long would you go on fixing things, how long
would you be patient and wait for him or her to
change? Relationship is not a do or die affair… Oh
you think you cannot love again? You would be
amazed how love will sweep you off your feet. Do
you think he knows you through and through and
no one knows you like he does? You would meet
someone that just after a few conversations, it
would feel like you have been friends forever.
You deserve to smile, you deserve to be happy,
you deserve to be appreciated, to glow, to dream
and for someone to encourage that dream, you
deserve to laugh, you deserve a romance that
feels like that in the movies and of course you
deserve the best.
Oh you were abused as a child and your life just
spiralled out of control from then on, with
everyone taking advantage of you? and this new
relationship though he slaps you once in a while
when you annoy him,he treats you better than any
other guy you have dated?…You deserve better.
Who told you because you gave up your virginity
or had sex with him you have to take his abuses,
his cheating, lies and tantrums do you feel stuck,
tied there for life and think another guy may see
you as trash? Who told you "all guys are like that,
manage the one you have, it doesn't get better"?
Who told you sometimes you have to roll with the
punches and abuse? Who said you will lose out
when you leave? Who told you there are no
good /great guys or girls out there? Who told you
there is no one like the first? Who told you your
life is messed up?
Sometimes I wonder why we stay in a
relationships full of negative drama, knowing the
future is bleak and the outcome is disastrous…
Why are you getting so stressed out and working
sooooo hard to make the relationship work and
perfect… My friend says "Marriage is a lot of work
even when you are with a great partner then you
marry a partner that was a tough cookie/ too
much drama before the marriage started, you are
in for a ride"
Sit back and ask yourself, why you are still in that
relationship when you guys are so different, where
you fight about the things that are important to
him or he doesn't support your dreams and shuts
it up whenever you talk about it or laugh you to
scorn? why are you in that relationship where
everyday he beats you and cheats on you, where
she insults you and make you feel less of a man?
Why are you in a relationship where you are not
yourself, where you cannot be your best, where
you are not comfortable? why??? Why are you in a
relationship with a good guy or girl that you don't
feel anything for? Why are you in a relationship
where you guys have no meeting point? Where
you hate to spend time together because you get
bored….
Why have we set the bar so low on what we think
we deserve? We see a loving couple and admire
them but don't want to dream we can be them
because we don't think we deserve it based on
our past and other things that has happened in
our lives…Please start dreaming big, start
knowing you deserve the best and most especially
start being who and what you think you
deserve….Change that character, work on that
personality, work on that aspect of you that you
know need some help and soon enough people
would think they deserve this new you….May I
just point out that one of the reasons you deserve
the best is because God has the best in mind for
you