It is amazing the way most men worry
about the size of their manhood . One would
have thought with the amount of information
on sex, men would stop worry about the
size and concentrate more on what can be
achieved with what they have.
Sincerely, for most women , size may not
matter as much as the effectiveness of the
art , provided men are ready to break new
grounds as well as do away with traditional
stereotypes that insist sex is a forbidden
thing , done only for procreation and should
not be recreational. Within the bounds of
marriage , such stereotypes only serve to
dull excitement embedded in the marriage
package. This is why men continue to think
size is the same thing as efficiency and
authority . Women respect the efficiency and
the sense of responsibility of a man not the
size of his manhood .
Therefore , there is nothing stopping a man
with smaller manhood from sexually
satisfying a woman . This is because only
the first few inches of the virginal are
sexually receptive . Hence once a man is
able to have contact with the outer rim of
the virginal, he can satisfy his woman
sexually . Besides, the clitoris is placed
where any size can reach it. This is
because God in his infinite wisdom
designed the woman ’ s body in such a way
to get satisfaction and give it to any man
even if small sized.
Size is more psychological than biological .
It only becomes an issue if couples allow it
a place of pride in their relationships.
This is one issue that has continually come
up which despite all attempts at resolving,
keeps coming up .
In the first place, nobody can tell what the
ideal size of a woman ’ s breasts or male
organ should be , but a recent survey puts
the average size of an active male organ at
between 5. 5 to 6 . 3 inches. But the majority
falls between 4. 7 and 5 . 1 inches.
However, the secret to complete happiness
is for a man to be happy with what he has
because that is what makes him unique.
This is the point you must learn to accept
yourself . Yes, your wife has an opinion , but
you must make her understand that your
size has nothing to do with your ability to
satisfy her . If she loves you, she would not
leave you for another man no matter the
challenge with your size. What you both
need is a lot of imagination as well as the
openness to experiment without
reservations.
When it comes to the art of lovemaking ,
size and width do not matter as much as
the imagination of a couple . Some men are
excessively endowed, but find it extremely
difficult to get any woman to stay with them
because of the inability of most women to
accommodate them .
To get a woman to stay with them, such
men must learn, just like the less endowed
men, to rely more on their hands , tongues
and mouth to get the female going. These
are the art that makes one experience more
different from the other .
Because love within a marriage is meant to
be expressed beyond measure, a definite
gift from God, you and your wife must first
bury whatever prejudices you both grew up
with . To get to the kernel , lot of works ,
perseverance , interest as well as
determination must first be deployed
towards cracking the shell. The same
principle applies to the art of lovemaking,
especially where a couple hits a challenge
like yours.
You , being the one with the perceived
problem, must be willing to do everything
within limits to ensure your partner doesn ’ t
escape with the feeling of being cheated or
anger at being deceived by you into a union
she won ’ t get the maximum sexual
satisfaction from.
To this end, you must encourage her to
speak out her mind at every point , listen to
her suggestions on how to please her as
well as follow with a clear mind her
initiatives.
Like every other thing in life , lovemaking
isn ’ t static . It must be continually upgraded
and distilled to give a couple the right
blends . This means a couple must not only
strive to achieve excellence, but must do
everything to patent their own act to fit into
their uniqueness . For example , the
technique that works for your friend and his
partner may not work for you, because they
don’ t have the challenge you and your
partner have.
So , you must first evaluate not only the
urgent problems but all those that are
hidden as well . For instance the issue is not
only that of you not having the ideal length
of manhood ? Would having the ideal length
solve the problem of your lack of sexual
satisfaction once and for all ? Remember
that for most women , satisfaction and not
the size of the male organ is what matters
at the end of the day .
Make her talk and give her the concomitant
freedom to really express herself on the
matter. Don’ t shut her up, feel bad or get
suspicious when she is making her opinion
on the matter known. Although your wife ,
she is an adult with an adult mind and
desires hence must be given the same
recognition as you to be happy with the
choice she made to love you
unconditionally .
The danger of not involving her in your
quest for solutions is the possibility of
losing her completely to another man. This
is one salient fact you must not overlook.
She has the right to discontinue if she feels
she is not being given the right to her
desires . This is why you must enlist her
help . So , tell your wife to stop complaining
and think of productive ways of achieving
sexual satisfaction with you. Tell her she
has all the freedom in the world to use her
imagination to help both of you become
better lovers because you both are licensed
by God and man to tap into sex unlimited
nectar.
This is the only way to make her stop
complaining as well as secure her only
understanding and support to make her
happy . You have to break away from the
traditions that insist sexual satisfaction falls
under the exclusive male list . This is the
point man and the society creates problems
within the marriage institution . When there
is a sexual dissatisfaction within the
marriage framework, irrespective of who is
complaining, it behoves on the couple to
adopt a liberal and sincere attitude towards
its solution. Frankly , when it comes to the
delicate issue of sex, it is neither a man or
woman ’ s world. Rather, it is a world of
happiness and satisfaction.
What you should do is to look for quality
books that talk about positions and
postures couples seeking ultimate joy in
sex should adopt . There are some positions
that seem to give more volume to the male
organ . Google the Internet for information
on such books or ask your book retailer .
These books are not pornography materials,
rather they are well researched quality
books put together by highly educated
individuals who from years of researches
know that sex to man is as important as the
air we all breathe . Once man is able to
overcome the pretences and admit to the
essence of sex, solutions to sexual
challenges become very easy.
As for your second question, yes there are
ways to increase the size of a male organ ,
but some of them are dubious, which is why
it is very important a couple works at
finding its own rhythm , rather than
concentrating efforts on getting a solution
that might not be forthcoming or could lead
to more emotional and psychological
frustrations at the end of the day .
There are penile enhancement surgeries
where penis can be lengthened to more
than 10 inches . But the urgent question is :
How would you determine the depth of your
woman ’ s body? The average for a woman
is about four to eight inches , which means
your woman may not be able to
accommodate you if you are very huge. Do
you really want to get into measuring your
anatomy like a tailor measuring clothes ?
Would your wife in her quest to make you
have the right size allow her depth to be
measured so that you are done to fit her
perfectly ?
In addition , these operations cost real
money because they fall within the category
of plastic surgery . Do you have the money
and at the end of the day , would the fee
charged be worth the satisfaction?
There are also many herbal pills and
exercises that claim to increase size, but
you may have to go to NAFDAC to get the
list of such drugs cleared for human
consumption . It would be interesting to
know what animals these drugs , claiming
this magic were first tested on before
releasing them for human consumption .
Believe me, your imagination and
willingness to experiment is your best bet .
Don’ t forget that God that made both of you
an item has already known why and has
given both of you the individual as well as
collective strength to achieve the
impossible together. There is no subject or
problem He is ignorant of. Asking Him for
help and wisdom would also help you and
your wife greatly.
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