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Saturday, March 22, 2014

wife for sale

 for sale, by auction: One wife
Sometimes, it just
doesn't work out. The
spark goes, the flame
flickers, the fire dies -
whichever combustible
cliche you favour, love
has a regrettable habit
of fizzling out.
But for everyone bar
the wealthiest men in
Victorian Britain,
divorce was out of the
question. That may explain, if not excuse, why a
navvy in Stacksteads, Lancashire who'd grown
tired of married life, reverted to an old English
custom.
He offered up his wife for auction to the highest
bidder, staging the sale - as an additional insult -
at the home they'd shared together.
"Despite Solomon's testimony as to a woman
being more precious than rubies, and
notwithstanding that the spectators were
numerous, the highest offer was only 4d," said the
Sheffield and Rotherham Independent in 1879.
"The seller wanted to 'throw in' three children, but
the buyer objected, and the bairns were left on
hand. The wife, however, went joyfully to the home
of her new owner, and seemed to be quite glad to
get away from her late liege lord as he was to part
with her."

My wife dated my room mate


I met my wife while in
the university. I was in
my final year while she
was in her first year. She
used to visit my room at
the hostel which I was sharing with four other
male friends of mine.
One of these roommates
is a Cameroonian, I
graduated before them. Recently, I was chatting
on Facebook with my
Cameroonian friend
when I asked after his
ex-girlfriend who comes
from my state. To my surprise, he asked after
another roommate and
my girlfriend then who
unknown to him had
become my wife. When I asked why he
paired them as an item,
he didn’t want to go on
but when I pressed
further, he told me
about the relationship that developed between
this former roommate
and my woman after I
graduated. I believed
this story because this
friend in question once came to my office but
didn’t ask to see me. In
addition, despite coming
for a Police training
programme in the town
I live for six months, he didn’t for once bother to
visit me at home. Agatha, before leaving
the university, I told her
of my intentions to
marry her and even
begged her to visit me
where I was serving but she refused. Now, I
know the reason she
didn’t come. We now
have two boys and I’m
currently not in the
country. I have this feeling they may still be
seeing each other. I was so hurt by this
information that I cried
for days and couldn’t
concentrate on my
postgraduate studies. I
called her and asked why she did it and she
denied it. But I’m very
sure the information I
got is correct because
this male friend now
avoids me. When he sent a text informing me
about his wedding, I
showed the text to my
wife and she exclaimed,
“So it is this girl that he
is going to marry?” I was wondering then
how she knew the lady
he was going to marry
and why she felt so
jealous. Now I
understand why. I love her so much that I have
even bought a car for
her. But she betrayed
my trust and only God
knows what other things
she could be doing now that I’m not in the
country.  Apparently she can
sleep with my
neighbours or brothers
or colleague if she can
sleep with my friends.
I’m so hurt and currently considering how best to
handle this situation

Friday, March 21, 2014

6 miscarriages ...... Seventh time lucky

Mum Lorraine Donakey finally gave birth to a
baby girl after six miscarriages in as many
years - thanks to egg yolk.
The 23-year-old gave up hope of motherhood
until a pioneering treatment led to 4lb 14oz
Lulu-Rose’s arrival.
She said: “Finally having her in my arms is
indescribable. When she was born I cried my
eyes out.
“Every time I got pregnant I thought it would
be different. I spent thousands on baby clothes
and equipment for six babies that were never
born.
“It was to the point where people wouldn’t
dare tell me they were pregnant because they
didn’t want to upset me. I didn’t find out about
my brother’s baby until it was four months
old.
“Even with the treatment I barely believed that
my baby would make it, it was always if she
made it.
“Now I’ve got Lulu-Rose I feel so lucky. She’s
already spoiled rotten.”
The forensic psychology graduate from
Liverpool suffered her first miscarriage when
she was just 17 and studying for her A levels,
discovering just hours before her exams that
she had lost the baby.
After hearing about a new treatment available
privately, desperate Lorraine found out about
Rafet Gazvani, a fertility specialist at Liverpool
Women’s Hospital, who was offering the
pioneering treatment.
Lorraine has a womb biopsy and was told the
reason she kept miscarrying was because of
‘killer cells’ that kept attacking the embryo.
She was treated using intralipid liquid, a mix of
egg yolks and saline solution, which
suppresses the killer cells and allows the baby
to grow.
Lorraine said: “We had to pay to have the
treatment privately. Luckily, my mum was able
to help out and she put the costs onto her
credit cards.
“I didn’t exercise and I took vitamins every
day - I would line them up in the morning.”
Thankfully the treatment was successful and
Lulu-Rose was born at a healthy weight on
January 17 this year. Lorraine is already
looking to the future and a little brother and
sister for her new baby.
She said: " Having six miscarriages definitely
takes its toll, on my body and my mind.
“But I know I want more than one baby and
now I know the treatment works.
“I want other women to know that this
treatment is available, maybe it can work for
them too.”

Mother forced son to watch her having sex with her brother


 A mother of six who sexually abused her son
during a childhood of fear and neglect is
expected to be sentenced next week. The 58-year-old has appeared in Belfast Crown Court with her ex-husband, two brothers and two former lovers, one an ex-
RUC man. The woman dressed in a red anorak and
black jeans, had previously pleaded guilty to
forcing her son to watching her have sex
with her brothers and ex-RUC reserve
Constable Thomas Fitzpatrick in the 1970s. She also made the youngster put her
breasts in his mouth during a period of
abuse and neglect that started when he was
four. The Belfast court heard about a litany of
horrific cruelty meted out to four of six
siblings - one boy and his three younger
sisters - by their own parents, uncles and
others, including Fitzpatrick, 53, and a baker
Patrick Kilmartin, 59. The men visited the couple’s various Co
Down houses which were chaotic, filthy and
infested with rodents up to 30 years ago. In one of the worst cases of its kind to come
before the Crown Court in Northern Ireland,
prosecuting QC Charles MacCreanor
revealed how the youngsters lived in
constant fear and suffered physical and sexual abuse, and neglect. It started when they were tots in cots and
lasted until 1986 when they were finally
taken into care, the youngest aged eight and
the oldest, 11. Judge Mr Justice Horner heard how the
mother sought to ‘educate’ her daughters,
now in their 30s, about sex by making them
watch her have intercourse with various men
including her brothers. She told them: “You’ll
have to learn this.” The girls were not only subjected to sexual
assaults and gross indecency, but were
savagely beaten by their father over the
years. On two separate occasions they were
beaten so hard and for so long that they wet
themselves in fear. Patrick Kilmartin had admitted his part in the
crimes All six accused, including Fitzpatrick,
originally from Crewhill Gardens in Ardglass,
and Kilmartin, originally from Bryansford
Gardens in Newcastle, previously pleaded
guilty to a total of 49 charges between them,
dating back to the summer of 1977 to the spring of 1988. The woman and her co-accused sat
passively in the dock as they listened to the
prosecution describe a plethora of abuse,
assault and neglect meted out on her
vulnerable children. Described by defence counsel Brendan
Kelly, as a woman of ‘impeccable character’,
it is expected she will be sentenced by Mr
Justice Horner next week. The now-grown children’s mother faces the
most charges, a total of 17 of cruelty and
neglect and 23, involving six of sexual
indecency. She pleaded guilty to four counts of gross
indecency where she forced her child to
watch as she had sex with her brother and ex-police officer Thomas Fitzpatrick. She also pleaded guilty to two counts of
indecency where she forced her son to
intimately touch her breasts. The case continues on Tuesday when
further pleas of mitigation on behalf of the
other defendants will be given to the court.

parents used home made incubator to save premature baby's life

On the advice of a doctor, a premature baby boy’s
life was saved after his parents incubated him
inside a polystyrene icebox for five months, Cover
Asia Press reported.
In October 2013, Mithilesh Chauhan was born two
months premature at Alliance Hospital in Mumbai,
India. At birth, he reportedly weighed just 3
pounds 3 ounces and was in need of constant
monitoring as he was prone to infections.
However, Mithilesh’s parents, Aruna and Ramseh
Chauhan, said they could not afford to keep their
son in the hospital’s intensive care unit (ICU).
They claim that they initially paid for their son’s
hospital stay by borrowing money from relatives,
but they soon ran out of people to ask for help.
The new parents then tried reaching out to other
government-run hospitals, but all the ICU waiting
lists were reportedly too long.
Knowing the baby would have to be discharged
soon, the Chauhans claimed that doctors at
Alliance Hospital suggested a cheap – and
unconventional – alternative.
"One doctor told us that if we couldn't afford to
keep our baby in hospital we should try a
Thermocol icebox with holes for ventilation and a
60-watt bulb to provide the right amount of
warmth," Aruna Chauhan, 34, told Cover Asia
Press. "He advised it was better than nothing and
might save our baby. My husband bought the box
from a nearby fish market and cut holes in it."
After 20 days in the ICU, Mithilesh was reportedly
released from the hospital – leaving the icebox as
the Chauhan’s only option. Aruna and Ramseh
claimed they would take him out every two hours
to take his temperature.
"It was awful," Aruna told Cover Asia Press. "We
had no idea if it was the right thing to do, but we
had to try something. We were terrified if we did
nothing he'd die, but we were also aware that what
we were doing wasn't exactly safe either. It was a
very distressing time."
Mithilesh survived after allegedly spending five
months in the icebox – but he remained severely
underweight. He is now reportedly receiving 24-
hour medical care at the Wadia Hospital for
Children, who heard about his condition and
offered to treat him for free.

3-year-old strapped in car without water for 5 hours

A childminder has been struck off for leaving a
child of three strapped into a car for more than
five hours after forgetting she was there.
Carol Cort had given the youngster a lift to the
nursery she owned as a favour to her mum.
But when the 67-year-old arrived she picked
up her handbag, jumped out of the car and
locked the door, leaving the girl strapped in
her seat – with no food or drink.
She returned to the vehicle at 3pm but only
noticed the child still sitting there after she had
set off to pick up other children from an after-
school club.
The Care Standards Tribunal heard Mrs Cort
“found the child sitting exactly as she had
been when her mother strapped her in”.
Judge Meleri Tudur said: “Initially, she didn’t
realise what had happened, assuming the child
had been placed in the wrong vehicle by a
member of staff.
“Only when the child told her that she had
been forgotten did she realise that she had
been there all day."
The child, known as E, had been away from the
nursery the previous week, suffering from
chicken pox, so her absence went unnoticed.
Her mother had phoned the nursery at the end
of the day to ask after her - but thought a
member of staff was ‘joking’ when he said he
hadn’t seen her.
Cort, who had worked in child care for 46
years and was due to retire, immediately drove
to the youngster’s home in a “very distressed
state” and confessed all to her mum.
She told the mother: “I’ve done something
awful. I’ve ruined the nursery and let
everybody down.
“I’ve ruined it for the children”.
Cort, ravaged by guilt, offered E a free place at
the Barn Nursery School in Bourton-on-the-
Water.
But the mother later withdrew her daughter
from the Barn and reported the matter to the
local authority.
The nursery owner, who was on the verge of
retirement and handing over the business to
her daughter, was immediately suspended by
Ofsted.
Her lawyers told Judge Tudur she was under
severe strain due to concerns over her
mother’s care in a nursing home and
presented psychiatric evidence that she was
depressed at the time.
They pointed out that, since the incident, Mrs
Cort’s daughter had put in place a rigorous
regime of checking vehicles in the nursery’s
car park to ensure that no children had been
left inside.
What happened was a “one-off and inadvertent
absent-minded mistake”, described as “an
aberration” by her legal team.
However, Judge Tudur said the incident was
so grave that Mrs Cort’s registration as a
childminder had to be cancelled.
It was only by “good luck and chance” that E
had not come to serious harm.
Although she had made an immediate
confession to E’s mother after driving her
home, Mrs Cort had not told even her own
family about the incident - and more
importantly had not reported the incident to
Ofsted herself.
Mrs Cort had been given a number of glowing
references by other parents with children at
the nursery “expressing their satisfaction” with
her work and praising her contribution to the
community.
But Judge Tudur said the nursery “was not
expecting E to attend” and expressed “serious
concerns” about the ad hoc arrangement for
giving E a lift to the Barn and the absence of
her name from the register that day.
She added: “A professional offering child care
for up to 100 children at any one time should
be able to say with certainty which children
will be attending on any particular day.
“The sequence of events leading to E being left
in the vehicle simply highlighted the risks
presented from lax conduct around children’s
attendance which placed children at
unnecessary risk of harm or neglect."
Despite Mrs Cort’s long and unblemished
history as a child carer, Judge Tudur
concluded: “The incident and the surrounding
issues identified are sufficient to merit the
cancellation of Mrs Cort’s registration."

Wednesday, March 19, 2014

Clock and dagger wedding

They married at midnight, the prisoner and his
bride, hands clasped tight through the bars of his
cell window.
She'd sneaked up to the walls of the jail under the
cover of darkness, clambering on to her brother's
shoulders to reach out to her sweetheart inside.
As the minister who conducted this covert
ceremony concluded the service, "some little
inconvenience occurred", reported the North-
Eastern Daily Gazette in 1885. The bride persisting
in kissing and crying over the groom's hand, "until
her brother reminded her that she weighed 135lbs,
and that he was beginning to feel exhausted".
And so 18-year-old Mollie Downes became the
wife of James Fauntleroy, the man accused of
attempting to kill his rival for her affections.
The lovers believed the unfortunate victim lay
dying of his wounds. Mollie was the only witness
to the attack. By marrying, she wouldn't be able to
testify against him in court.
The following day, the town constable in Marion,
Virginia, got wind of the secret wedding ceremony.
He was so disgusted at being outwitted, he took to
his bed, "where by latest account he remains in a
state bordering on coma".

Clock and dagger wedding

They married at midnight, the prisoner and his
bride, hands clasped tight through the bars of his
cell window.
She'd sneaked up to the walls of the jail under the
cover of darkness, clambering on to her brother's
shoulders to reach out to her sweetheart inside.
As the minister who conducted this covert
ceremony concluded the service, "some little
inconvenience occurred", reported the North-
Eastern Daily Gazette in 1885. The bride persisting
in kissing and crying over the groom's hand, "until
her brother reminded her that she weighed 135lbs,
and that he was beginning to feel exhausted".
And so 18-year-old Mollie Downes became the
wife of James Fauntleroy, the man accused of
attempting to kill his rival for her affections.
The lovers believed the unfortunate victim lay
dying of his wounds. Mollie was the only witness
to the attack. By marrying, she wouldn't be able to
testify against him in court.
The following day, the town constable in Marion,
Virginia, got wind of the secret wedding ceremony.
He was so disgusted at being outwitted, he took to
his bed, "where by latest account he remains in a
state bordering on coma".

Clock and dagger wedding

They married at midnight, the prisoner and his
bride, hands clasped tight through the bars of his
cell window.
She'd sneaked up to the walls of the jail under the
cover of darkness, clambering on to her brother's
shoulders to reach out to her sweetheart inside.
As the minister who conducted this covert
ceremony concluded the service, "some little
inconvenience occurred", reported the North-
Eastern Daily Gazette in 1885. The bride persisting
in kissing and crying over the groom's hand, "until
her brother reminded her that she weighed 135lbs,
and that he was beginning to feel exhausted".
And so 18-year-old Mollie Downes became the
wife of James Fauntleroy, the man accused of
attempting to kill his rival for her affections.
The lovers believed the unfortunate victim lay
dying of his wounds. Mollie was the only witness
to the attack. By marrying, she wouldn't be able to
testify against him in court.
The following day, the town constable in Marion,
Virginia, got wind of the secret wedding ceremony.
He was so disgusted at being outwitted, he took to
his bed, "where by latest account he remains in a
state bordering on coma".

Missing Malaysian plane: Australia sees possible debris

Australia is investigating two objects seen on
satellite images that could potentially be linked to
the missing Malaysia Airlines plane, officials say.
Planes and ships from Australia, New Zealand and
the US were heading to the area 2,500km (1,550
miles) south-west of Perth to search for the
objects.
The largest appeared to be 24m in size, maritime
authorities said, but warned they could be
unrelated to the plane.
Australia has been searching in the southern
Indian Ocean for the aircraft.
Malaysia Airlines flight MH370 was flying from
Kuala Lumpur to Beijing on 8 March when it lost
contact with air traffic controllers. A total of 239
people were on board.
Twenty-six nations have been involved in a major
search for the missing plane, which Malaysia says
was intentionally diverted.
Investigators have been scrutinising the
backgrounds of both the crew and the passengers,
but have so far identified no evidence of terror or
other potentially relevant links.
A number of sightings of possible debris have
been investigated in the course of the search but
so far none have proved to be linked.
Southern corridor
Prime Minister Tony Abbott announced the
discovery of the objects in parliament.
"The Australian Maritime Safety Authority (Amsa)
has received information based on satellite
information of objects possibly related to the
search," Mr Abbott said.
"Following specialist analysis of this satellite
imagery, two possible objects related to the search
have been identified."
An Australian Orion aircraft is currently in the
search area and three more planes, including US
and New Zealand aircraft, are on their way, as well
as a merchant ship.
Amsa said the debris had been located in waters
some 2,500km south-west of the Australian city of
Perth.
The objects identified were of a "reasonable size",
Amsa's general manager John Young said. The
largest object appeared to be about 24m in size,
he said.
"This is a lead, it is probably the best lead we
have right now. But we need to get there, find
them, see them, assess them, to know whether it's
really meaningful or not."
He warned that poor visibility in the area could
hamper the search.
Satellite signal
Earlier this week, Australia was asked by Malaysia
to take responsibility for the "southern corridor"
search.
Investigators had identified two corridors of
territory - one to the north and one to the south -
spanning the possible positions of the plane about
seven hours after take-off.
This was based on its last faint signal to a satellite
- an hourly "handshake'' broadcast even when the
main communication systems are switched off.
The plane lost contact with controllers over the
South China Sea as it crossed from Malaysian to
Vietnamese air space.
Malaysian officials say it then turned west and its
last position - according to Malaysian military
radar - was over the Malacca Straits, in the
opposite direction to its planned flight path.
Attention has focused on the crew and on
Wednesday multiple unidentified US officials said
that the FBI was helping Malaysia analyse data
from a flight simulator taken from the captain's
home.
Malaysia's Acting Transport Minister
Hishammuddin Hussein, at a press conference on
Wednesday, stressed the captain should be
considered innocent until proved otherwise and
said that members of his family were co-operating
with the investigation.